The most powerful messages any of us have to give to our listeners, to our audiences, are those that come straight from the "gut" of our own lives. From the best lessons we've learned, from our trials by fire. From stories that show our participants that we, like they, are many faceted…and that they, like we, can reach higher personal and professional ground by reflecting on their own life journeys. With both the expected and the surprises of life, our paths are many and varied: more fascinating than the plot of any play, because they are our own both large and small dramas. Life events and our reactions to them uncover who we are. They can be funny, sad, sublime, ridiculous, selfish, loving, giving, triumphant, poignant, embarrassing, silly, saving, inspiring, dumb…almost every adjective we know could be ours on any given day.

Your power as a speaker is directly aligned with how well you use and tell your own stories, which should create a bridge between your message and your listener's mind and heart. Storytelling is the thoroughfare from their present to their past and thus to their futures.

Your stories can trigger the floodgates of your audiences' stories, causing time itself – in memories – to flow back to that long-ago instant when lessons were learned and patterns were set. Re-examining a pattern shines a light on which ones to reinforce and enhance, and which ones to let go of forever.

The value of your vignette is simply this: it enables your audience to revisit their own stories, and the decisions they made because of them; and opening your audience to revisit their choices is the key to unlocking their understanding, their creativity, their self acceptance, their insights, and their willingness to change and grow beyond where they are today.

The challenge of finding and delivering your own unique message is perhaps more crucial than finding your speaking "niche" in today's parade of industries, conferences, and technology. Your strongest resource is your life experience. How are you using your history, your viewpoint, your stories to make unforgettable connections with your hearers? Are you telling them in the best possible way? How are you at remembering those events, ordinary and extraordinary, that shaped your attitude and learning – and are you painting pictures with words that will make unforgettable impressions for your audiences and for your own future?

Your future as a speaker may be at stake here if you don't want to be one of the
multitude whose messages are bland and whose names are easily forgotten.
Emory Austin is a storyteller. She is also funny and warm and analytical.
Emory coaches speakers on fashioning their stories into memorable truth carriers.
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